See at first, I thought what a nice dude. He’s sent me a message, he want’s to learn. Theeeennn I checked your profile. Someone has already spoke to you, explained to you about re-claiming slurs and you just dismissed it saying “you don’t think it’s that”. Fine, but why don’t you ask your friends, instead of talking about them on the internet. Have you asked them why they do it? I assume your friends are relatively vocal, I’m sure they’d speak to you about it.

You really don’t know why such behaviors are deemed negative in women? I think if you think about it, you’ll know. They are not negative traits in men; being loud, aggressive, sleeping with lots of women is a good thing. It is not the same way for women because of *tada* the patriachy. You know, that horrible status quo that likes to keep women pure and demure, because we’re seen as less than a man? 

In conclusion, (before I met my partner) I slept around, a lot. I loved it. I called my self a slut, because it took the power out of the word when other people decided to shame me. It’s really that simple.